Am I still a virgin?

by Marina
(USA)


During the years that I was 12 and 13 I was struggling with an enduring addiction to porn and masterbation. I told myself that I wasn't hurting anything by what I was doing, so it was okay to do what I did. But I knew deep down it wasn't, and the longer I went, the less I was able to speak to God.


I got help on here, and though my struggle went on for almost a year after that, I have now broken away from my addiction and actualy think it's disgusting that I ever liked that kind of thing. I owe it to the Christian testamony of Shelley Lubben, a former porn star who really opened my eyes to what the porn industry is.

I'm 14 now.

But now my lingering question is, am I pure again? Being a Christian, can I be made pure through Jesus? Or do I have to live with this for the rest of my life.. can I ever again be a virgin?
And will my old problems affect me in my future marrage?

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a little help
by: Anonymous

I believe u r still a virgin. Jesus was perfection, and when he died, he died with you in mind to forgive your sins, so perfection could forgive your sins, so that u could be perfect in the eyes of God, and eventualy live in his house. Jesus died so that you could be forgiven, and washed cleaned by the hands of Jesus and God. The bible says that each day is a new clean slate, that each day is a new beginning. Jesus loved you so much that he died for you!!! Someone loved you so much that they died for you. His love dosen't just stop at the cross, it continues and will endure through all eternity!! I know that kind of love would totally forgive you. Just remeber though, just as you creator, and savior forgive you, you must also learn how to forgive to. =-] Hope this helped, and I'm glad you are free!!!!!!!!! I had a problem with masturbation for a very long time, and I'm free too! It's a wonderful thing, god's light!! People who know me probably would of never guessed that I did that, but now since I'm free there is no more guilt, shame or madness, only freedom. The devil can't hold me or you or anyone back as long as they have god, and jesus right beside them!!!
me too
by: Anonymous

Me too
though I'm getting though it woth gods help and this website

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