Getting Horny

by Shyann
(Salem,Ohio)

im a 12 year old girl and when i see somthing sexual or when my boy friend rubs my chest i tend to get horny and say stuff that i dont mean is this normal for a girl who just turned 12?....

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nope
by: niki

eeew. absolutely not. first of all, if u even need a bf at that age, he most certainly should not be touching u. remember who u r and who u ultimately belong to: God.

sry if i seem harsh, but u should really reevaluate ur priorities

praying for u :)

Niki (15)
wow
by: sam

girl, that boy has no business touching u... u shudnt have to b worrying about this.. i wud break up with him if he keeps doing it. it implies sexual things. i wud get out of that relationship as soon as possible or sit down with the guy and explain your morals and boundaries firmly. if he doesnt listen i wud say no. that its the end. sry hunny but i agree with niki. i'll b praying for u to b strong. :) God bless.
-sam
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by: Gigi

It's hormones. What's making you feel this way is hormones. It is normal to have raging hormones for a boy at this age, all the way through college until your hormones settle down, but you need to stop this in its tracks.
You have to be able to control your hormones and not let yourself get into a type of situation like that. We ALL make mistakes, some of us flip through PlayBoy magazines then regret it, some of us watch porn, some of us are "peepers" and watch people undress, idk, but we all will or have been going through these things. We all mess up, but that doesn't mean we can't KEEP messing up.
When I was 10, I didn't understand these new feelings, and I played a very bad internet game. After my twelfth birthday a year and a half ago, I broke down crying and in shame in front of my mom, telling her everything and confessing, but you know what she told me? "It's okay," she said. She told me that God tells us when we mess up, "Its okay, you're completely forgiven," but that doesn't mean we can do it again.
You need to understand that its just hormones that you're feeling, that's teenage years, but you can't act upon those hormones or you're going to get yourself in a completely worse situation when you're older.

Hope this helps :)
Normal, but not really okay.
by: Ali

Yes, like Gigi said, it is very normal for us(tweens and teens)to have strong, weird, un-understandable, not always meaningful emotions. And we should be very careful not to let them guide our lives. They are undependable, and passing things.

And don't let a guy even anywhere near touching you there! Sorry if this is harsh sounding, but it's a good. idea. It is wrong for him to even want to do that, and I would suggest you either break up immediately, or state that you do not want him doing that(and if he keeps on, you should leave him). He is no5t respecting you, or your body.
You are too young to be having a bf anyways, it's not like you two are going to get married.. You are just giving out a little piece of your heart to this guy, instead of saving it all for your future husband.

And again, like Gigi said, do not give into the inappropriate feelings. A year ago I started my hormones, and did not do a very good job guarding my soul. I started looking on the internet at very bad things, and I greatly regret every picture I looked at. I kept that up til almost three months ago, and then I broke, and went into a depression where I was too ashamed to even speak to God.. It took me a few weeks before recovering, and accepting forgiveness.
And now I look back at it and thing at all the sadness, and hurt, and alonness I could have avoided! If only I had not given into that weird-hormone feeling that I had telling me that I ENJOYED looking at that stuff.

So ya, watch out.. above almost everything, guard your heart. Do what you know is RIGHT, not what you think would be fun. And with everything, ask God for guidance, and wisdom to do His will.

I'll be praying for you, hun. (:
-Ali (age 13)
Don't
by: Anonymous

In the Bible it says that your body is a temple of God. And to have a clean and Holy mind you need to get rid of everything sexually. That means when something inapropriate is on the internet or t.v. have self control and turn the channel or go to a diffrent web site. Second off don't take this the wrong way but you don't need a boyfriend at 12. And if he rubs your chest or any other part of your body that needs to be private tell him to keep his hands off you it dosen't matter what tone of voice then tell an adult.---------------------------------------
This is what's inside his mind:
"I'm going to rub her chest and see what she does"
"She just said nasty stuff! Sweet!"
" I'll do it again soon"
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If he is able to do that to you now he will eventually have or force you to have sex with him. So dump him! Once you make these changes change your mouth; pray to God to help you control your mouth.And please don't use the term "horney" use innapropriate instead. Hope this helped.
No pls stop him
by: Madison

No sweetie you should not let him even touch you idk how old your boyfriend is but at such an age y’all shouldn’t even be thinking about sexual activity if he doesn’t stop when you ask him to tell an adult or a grownup, it’s your body but at your age it’s not normal I definitely agree with Sam and niki please be careful because it could be something it shouldn’t be so no it’s not okay what he is doing and on the other half you shouldn’t be looking at sexual things as if of I’m 17 and yet I don’t watch those type of things rather or not you mean too don’t look at those things and you should try doing other things instead of worrying about boys you already have someone to love which is god please be careful we love you
A title
by: A random girl

First of all, I agree with the rest of them. You really should not let ur boyfriend do that. Also I have the exact same problem I’m about 12 and a half and I was searching if it’s normal to feel this way and I’m glad 2 know that I’m not some hormonal in-balanced dirty-minded person. And I guess I can’t give that much input bc I’ve actually never had a boyfriend
It’s normal
by: Anonymous

It’s completely normal to get horny at your age but you shouldn’t be letting this boy touch you like that idk if it’s making you uncomfortable when he does but if you do you definitely need to talk to him.
Hope this helps
Yes
by: Kayla

Yes it’s normal for you to get sudden urges but just make sure this touching business doesn’t get out of hand and leads to sex also tell me if it’s making you uncomfortable
advice :)
by: anna

hey girly!
1. having a boyfriend at your age isn't necessarily the best idea, but i'm not here to judge.
all i say is to make sure that you don't accidentally let something happen that shouldn't happen(for your own sake).
2. being horny often at your age is completely normal. hormones are all over the place and you're growing into an adult.
control is the best method to calm things down. maybe start doodling or talk to some friends to distract yourself - urges will be gone in no time.

i hope everything goes well! <3
idk why i am horny
by: Anonymous

idk if it is normal but i am 12 and i get horny a lot and i am a boy
I feel the same
by: Lunatic

Hi i am also 12 i feel very horny like i need to touch myself:( I asked my friends for help they thought i was playing so they said that i should watch porn and touch myself!! So i did thinking it was gonna work, it didn't:( i can't stop playing with myself!!my arm hurts! And i can't play volleyball with a sore arm! I feel ashamed and thought this might help me talking myself out of being extremely h0rny! i don't like that fact that Im a 12 year old female touching myself at such a young age!! I tried calling myself down!!:) But i always give in:( I'm going crazy!! I don't know what to do!!the only thing i can do is either try and control myself or just give in!! I feel like I'ma go crazy!! I wanna tell my parents but don't know how!! I wanted to say (hey mom I've been feeling very sexual for some reason!) I feel like she's just gonna say it's just my hormones!! Im scared! I stayed away from dating since 5th grade (I'm in 7th now)i only stayed away from dating cause i didnt want my partner asking for nudes!! Or if he/she can touch me!! i feel lonely but i haven't dated which I'm proud of! I always thought since I'm in middle school i have to be like everyone else (watching porn,talking about sex,dating,vaping, cursing,fights) i just don't know what to do!! Please help me!!!
Idk-
by: Anonymous

Girl That is normally for girls that age! But you should get an adult or tell him to stop touching you like that because that can get very sexual very fast and that isn't good. I hope this helps.
Understandable
by: Ultima

I am yes the same age as this person and i do get horny for gorls since i found out mmy sexuality and i also could tell thats it is from hormones that change in your body and its normal for it but please dont have a bf at this age its bad but if you keep it to a point where it is just talking and no touchy touchy and i know it may saound rude but i could understand this though…
I will be praying for you to do good 😌
- Ultima (12)
Its hormones
by: Millyy<3

The horny part is normal because its obviously hormones but please dont let that boy touch you like that!
its normal
by: SGTKILLR777

its ok and normal to get horny i do alot and im only 14 but still @ ur age he shouldn't be touching u like that i once had someone last year but some other girl got jealous and said i was with her and the one i was with got angry and i tried to explain but she didn't want to hear it and broke up with me although i do get a little horny seeing cute girls i can't let it control me so now i'm just waiting for the right one.
Yea
by: Alisa

I feel the same and I have a feeling it’s normal for 12 yr olds
Your too young
by: Brayden

Honestly, I think you could get horny at this young to in your 20s, it depends on every person. But slow down there, you shouldn’t let nobody touch you. It’s best if you report that to a adult cause that’s just dang inappropriate. Hope you get some help!
u shouldnt let them
by: Anonymous

thats not good just if they go it again stop them
Im not always horny
by: Leslie

i’m 15 and i don’t watch porn but today i felt this horny feeling and i hate it i cant control myself but i js pray because i dont really like touching myself.

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