I need help with this boy problem!

I am 16 years old, and i like this guy alot. I have know him for 4 years and since i was 14 we have been friends with benefits off and on. i know this is wrong and it has been destroying me emotionally for 2 years. And i know he is winning because he has to make no commitment or an emotional connection, while he gets all this physical stuff. I haven't slept with him but i have done just about everything else. I want to be done with him but every time i try to get over him or stop paying attention to him, or dating someone else he starts texting me,and saying the perfect line and I fall for him again. I have cheated on one of my ex boyfriends with him and he has cheated on two of his ex girlfriends with me. I just dont know what to do because i love him, but i have no clue how to get over him.

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Hiya
by: Anonymous

The only advice I have there is to cut all ties with him. Stop being friends and get away from him. Sorry for the bluntness sweetie but he's just using you and it's better to cut things off now than wait later and have things get worse. Do you know God? If not ask Shelly or me for more information. If you do, please ask Him to forgive you and to help you turn from this sin. There's still hope for you sweetie, it's a hard road but with God all things are possible. Good luck.

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