LOve? I dont know?!

by samantha
(uk)

Hii x Ok theres this boy and ive liked him since he came to our school. He went out wiv my friend at first then this other girl now hes seeing another. Were lyk ded close like best friends almost he tells me everything! He even asked me for advice weather he should ask them 3 above out. (online)>Well the night b4 he asked out the 3rd girl he lyk sorta asked me out but awarkdly. He went do you think we could be more than friends? Maybe? I said He said Well do you want to? Me: Yea ;)Then there was no talking for a while so i said so are we... (meaning dating)and he went what? ( He knew wat i meant im sure of it!)Anyway i had to go then becauz it was getting late. Then the next day i spoke to him (online)nd there was no word about wat happened last night then he asked me if he should ask girl 3 out! Like nothing had happened! I think he only asked girl 3 out becauz she'd been flurting wiv him recently coz she's desperate for a boyfriend shes been going on about getting one for ages. Yh i admit it shes way better looking than me but all the time ive been there for him!


I really do think i accually LOVE him ive never felt like this before about past boys
But i really dont know what to do?
I might of told him how i feel when he was single but id feel like a right idiot now he's taken and i do know girl 3 quite well?..

I just dont know what to do i need some advice! Plz xx

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Is it love? ugh maybe, maybe not.
by: Angiee :)

From what u're saying, this guy does seem like he has feelings for you, but just doesn't want to show it? Maybe he wants to go out but he's afraid of what other people might think. Maybe, he doesnt want to ruin the friendship you two have. But if you really, really, really want to be his girlfriend... i suggest that you take it slow. Don't be fast, let him get used to the idea of having u as a girlfriend. The way to do that would be to be his girlfriend without being his girlfriend (if that even makes sense). Do things with him that a girlfriend would do. Go out into town with him, help him with homework, flirt with him occasionally, idk go to the movies... Do anything that u can, that would be an excuse for u to hang with him more. Also what i noticed is that u put urself down when u said that he asked the third girl out... saying she's better looking than u. Well honey thats only true if u believe it. If you want go out with him YOU have to believe that u're more beautifull than all of his exes combined. YOU have to know that u're beautifull an once u know that, i guarantee that this boy won't be able to say no. and if u're having trouble finding ur true beauty, search on google, finding ur true beauty :) . and finally, i noticed that u said the "L" word. I can tell u right now, that what u're feeling isnt love. i'm 15 and i've had my heart broken more than i could count so "love" is "love" until u both feel it. and my final sentence would be to not be to forward when he has a girlfriend... it could cause major drama, especially if u're in the same school. trust me! i know! haha so good luck honey and stay beautifull

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