My Boyfriend pushed me over the edge

by billie
(Troy,Mo)

I am 13 and my boyfriend was the same age.

And from the beginning we were always together.
We spent everyday together and every minute.
And then he started saying i was fat and ugly.
So i just stopped eating.

And he didnt seem to care that i stopped.
And when we would go on dates we would always go to a park or something and we would just walk around.

And all my friends told me that he was not worth the time and that i should let him go.

But he always said that the only reason he said i was fat was because he didnt want people to make fun of me and that he wanted me to feel beautiful,
and i did.

So i just didnt eat for 18 days.

And when my mom found out she immediately took me to the hospital and i was so weak that i couldn't ever get up the stairs to go to the E.R
so the doctor had to carry me.

And when i got out of the hospital i had gained weight and my boyfrind said that i was getting fat again,

So im back to square one.

Not eating and getting sick!!!

help!!!

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by: Julie

Dear Billie,
I am so sad when I hear how beauty is viewed for so many people today. I am normally not this up front, but please, do whatever it takes to remove yourself from situations and people who are not uplifting at this time. I hope that you can have confidence in yourself and the fact that God finds you lovable no matter what you look like or if you are the "ideal" picture of thinness. No one can or should maintain such a standard, especially at the expense of your health. Please talk to your boyfriend or bring another adult if you find it hard. It does not seem like he is helping your emotional wellbeing, and that is what a lot of food and eating/starving issues come from. I will pray that you remember GOd's truths for your life. Please keep in touch and let us know how you are doing. Please remember you are precious to God and to your sisters in Christ. It is not worth your health or your life. You are beautiful just the way you are!
In Him,
Julie
dear sweetheart
by: nikita

you dont need that i had the same problem. just break up with him so you don't need to be in the hospital again and that he's not worth it and that you need to not think what other people think they just do it to make them look cool and its not i get picked on every day for being fat
pull down the strongholds
by: shaniece=)

YOU NEED TO FLIPPIN EAT DUDE!!!!first of all you need to find a way to cut yourself off from that person if they were making you feel that way because that is beyond unhealthy to have a relationship like that. i think that breakiing up with him and not really being concerned with trying new relationships could help you find yourself and overconme your stronghold.
you need to find maybe an adult from your church, if you go to church, and form a strong relationship with them and share with them what you are going through to get some of your issues off of your chest

idk just a thought
ill pray for you=)
sorry
by: leslie

you need to say to him that you dont care i had to go to the er cause you told me i was fat so i stopped eating i could of died and now you call me fat again and now i am not eating again then break up with him i will pray for you it is ok eat your not fat he is just mean
DO THE RIGHT THING INSTEAD OF THE WRONG THING
by: SHELBY HANNON

BIILIE YOU CANT STOP EATING AGAIN! THAT IS THE WORST THING YOU COULD DO. I DID THAT TONS OF TIMES BECAUSE I THOUUGHT I WAS FAT! AND FIANALLY PEOPLE STARTED NOTICING! SO DONT STOP EATING YOU ARE SLOWLY KILLING YOURSELF! YOU NEED TO LIVE A LONG HEALTHY LIFE

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