question about boys

by shannon
(paisley)

hey i live in scotland im 12 years old and i just started high school im really enjoying it but theres this boy arran who is english & i really like him i dont know how to tell him, any ideas? also do you think im too young to be thinking about boys?

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do you really like him
by: Anonymous

find out more about him if he is a guy thats mean to others dont date him
first of all
by: shaniece

i would take things slow
do not tell him that you like him right away even if you feel the urges to do so

i think that if you are going to tell him that you like him, then you need to make sure that you guys are not "just friends"
bcuz that culd ruin your friendship with someone

just pray about it and just ask God to give you guidance with this specific situation
Boy crazy
by: S'ambrosia

Funny story: Just the other day, I was looking through my journals from junior high and high school. Guess what every single page was centered on... BOYS! I teach middle school now and I see the same thing in all the girls in my classes. Whenever they talk me after school, I'm sure you can guess what the topic of conversation always is...yep, boys.

You're at an age where it's totally understandable that you'd be thinking about boys (blame puberty and your hormones, haha). Try not to let yourself become too boy crazy to the point of having all of these fantasies about Arran or any other boy you might start to like (trust me, there will be more). Fantasies are definitely not good for your heart! They play with your emotions too much.

I would encourage you to develop a friendship with Arran (something you should always keep in mind when it comes to dating...friendship is the best foundation for any romantic relationship), and then if he likes you back, he'll tell you. That way you don't put your heart at risk of being broken so easily.

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