relationships

by amy
(england)

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heey, i need help.

i have a boyfriend who i love so much.
but we have been going out for 4 months now.
and all we have done is hug.
all my friends said to him i want to kiss him,
but i say i aint ready, but i am, it's just i don't know how to kiss, and i want my first kiss with him to be special.
but when my mates go up to him, hes willing to kiss me right then.
i just need help with my first relationship, i really want this to be special and also last.
please help.

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Kissing dosen't matter
by: Natalie

You should really put christ as ur #1 reletionship. Kising ur bf dosen't matter, as much as u think it does. You should put christ at the center attention of your reletionship, so that whenever you, and your bf get in2 an arguement, or u have problems, u guys can pray about it, maybe ask god wheter he thinks kissing him is important, the important thing is, kissing as exciting as it is, is that your bf is there for you, and u, in return r there for him, and when I say there for eachother, it means that u guys should listen to eachother, vent to one another, and pray 4 one another,even when the other dosen't ask 4 u 2 pray 4 him. Focus on the important things between u and him, Your reletionship w/ christ, and where is christ in ur reletionship?
hope this helped, Natalie
wait
by: Shea

I know how it feels, but believe me when I say it is better to wait and to just focus on your relationship with God. Waiting can be hard but it is even more hard to stop yourself from going further after you've been kissing. It is just better to not put yourself in those situations to begin with, I wish I did. Keep yourself pure for the one God has for you on your wedding day. You will have so much less of a heartache if you do. After a few broken hearts, its hard to give yourself completely to your husband, and that is not fair to him.
i agree
by: Samantha

i agree with the comment above... God wants.. well and our future husband. wants us to wait for them. Broken hearts cause real damage. trust me, ive been through a bad one. And went into depression cuz of it. NOT FUN. I dont recommend this (kissing) until u have been together for at least LEAST two years. That wud give u the necessary amount of time to get to kno him a little better. like wut his morals r. r they the same as yours? kissing can lead to problems. kissing can also lead to immoral things that want to b done inside marriage. pray about first though. dont just tke our words for it.
i"ll pray for u!
-Samantha

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